It’s been a rough week, hasn’t it?
It didn’t feel right to write something funny or lighthearted this week. Instead, I urge you to take action. To put some good juju out into the world.
When I heard of the Las Vegas shooting on Monday, I found myself more upset than usual– and let us pause and reflect upon the fact that there have been enough tragedies in recent years that I said “THAN USUAL” in reference.
It followed me throughout the day; a sense of dread, fear, and sadness that I couldn’t shake. I even started writing a post about the anxiety I felt weighing me down.
I tried to find the words to say something about what is happening in our world, to show that I care. I looked for an image to share and show my support.
But I realized something in doing so: it’s not about me, sharing something on social media. It’s about the 58 people killed and 500 injured in Las Vegas Sunday night; the 34 people killed and one million people without power or access to food or running water in Puerto Rico, as a result of Hurricane Irma; it’s about the 82 people killed and 30,000 homes lost as a result of Hurricane Harvey. (Oh yeah, remember them?)
I also realized that my words are not enough, and that sharing a picture on Instagram, Facebook, and Twitter does nothing to actually help these people.
I watched a video which shared the names of the people who were killed on Sunday; I learned small details about these people– who they were, their age, what they did for a living, if they were a mother or father, and sometimes a trait people loved about them. I was heartbroken watching this video, for the innocent people who lost their lives, and their loved ones who lost them. Tears streamed down my face, and I thanked God that my husband, my family, my friends were all alive and safe.
But that could change in an instant.
If I truly want to show my support, I decided that I needed to DO something.
Before I go any further, I want to make it clear that I am not here to talk politics, or to impose my own views upon you. Nor am I shaming anyone for sharing images or thoughts and prayers. What I am here to do is to encourage you– to challenge you to DO something. Do something to help. Our thoughts and prayers, although well-intentioned, are not enough.
There are so many ways for all of us to do something to help the millions of people who need more than just our thoughts and prayers.
Here are some examples:
- This GoFundMe page is raising money to support the victims of the shooting in Las Vegas.
- The National Compassion Fund provides support to victims and their families in both the short- and long-term.
- Donate blood. There have been reports that enough blood has been donated in Las Vegas at this point, but donating blood at any time can help.
- 90% of every dollar donated to Unicef goes directly to helping children.
- The Humane Society’s Disaster Relief Fund is used to protect animals impacted by the storms.
- Unidos por Puerto Rico was set up by Puerto Rico’s first lady to provide aid to those affected by Hurricanes Irma and Maria.
- Save the Children works to support children and families in both Puerto Rico and the Dominican Republic who will need to rebuild their lives after the hurricanes.
- National Voluntary Organizations Active in Disaster provides a number of ways you can volunteer to help those affected by Hurricane Maria, Hurricane Irma, and Hurricane Harvey.
- This GoFundMe page is dedicated to bringing emergency supplies and long-term help to Texas residents who are continuing to recover from Hurricane Harvey.
- Charity Navigator lists a number of different charities to choose from when donating your money to help those affected by tragedy.
- Every download of Lin-Manuel Miranda’s song “Almost Like Praying” goes to The Hispanic Federation’s disaster relief fund.
Make a donation. Volunteer. Give blood. Call your representatives. Go to freakin’ Puerto Rico. I don’t care what you do, but please, please do something. What if it were you or me? Would you feel like words were enough then?
PS I just want to reiterate, I am not bashing anyone who shared “Pray for…” images on social media, or sent “thoughts and prayers.” I just felt like it was time for me to do more, and I hope there are others out there who feel the same way.
PPS If you’re feeling down, remember the good in the world. Here are some reminders:
- Ellen, highlighting some of the good we’ve seen on her show over the years.
- This Buzzfeed post showcasing the good in people’s hearts in everyday, seemingly small moments.
- This site dedicating to sharing good world news stories.
- And of course, baby animals:
I love everything about this post. I felt the exact same way when I found out what happened. You should go on my fb page & watch a video I shared about gun violence in America. It’s horrifying, yet very informative– I think you’ll appreciate it a lot.
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I’ll check it out!
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You’re right, doing things is important, and I believe you aren’t trying to bash anybody…but there’s no need to “negate” prayer either. Believe me, prayers do much more than you think. The effort should be a combination of action and prayer, or better yet, action inspired and fueled by prayer. If you aren’t a religious person, I understand where you are coming from, but I do not agree with them entirely either.
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I’m not negating prayer. I’m just saying I don’t feel like it’s enough. Like what you said about a combination; we should be using prayer and action together.
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Well I’m glad you agree. Still, having a meme with the word prayer crossed out implies negation, even if you’re trying to say something different. There are better ways to get your point across, that’s all.
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After a week like this, I really really needed those baby animals. So thanks!!! Another good cause is Lin-Manuel Miranda’s. He is from Puerto Rico, and has a couple of ways to help. Just google him.
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Oh, I’ll add it to the list! Kitty gifs to the rescue!
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This is so true! We can talk or write about how we feel regarding all these tragedies but it doesn’t always help. Thanks for the reminder to DO something too.
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Exactly! As well-intentioned as our sympathies and prayers may be, they just don’t get the job done.
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You are so right. We need to start ‘talking’ less and doing more. People really need our help all over the world.
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Yes, so true. And even something small can make a difference.
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I love the concept of continuing to do good – in big ways and little ones too – through crazy times. Actually, all the time. Thanks for the reminding nudge :))
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Yes, no matter if it’s big or little, it makes a difference! 🙂
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I felt very sick when I heard about the shootings in Vegas. My husband and I went there last year to get married. It was an amazing place and I was so happy there, which is why I felt so sad and upset. Thank you for posting those links, they are really useful and helpful for people to take action 🙂
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It’s horrible that a place tied to such happy memories has now been tainted, for you and many others. I hope that our small actions can bring a little bit of peace to those affected.
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Fantastic post Becca. Lots of usual links here for people. And of course your positive links were great too- especially the baby animals. Am always here for the baby animals.
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Baby animals make the world a better place. 😻
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Great post, Becca! I especially appreciate that you didn’t get political and shared actual ways people can help instead of just being armchair heroes!! Nice post!! ❤️
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Thanks friend!! Armchair heroes 😹😹 I’ve never heard that before, but it’s an excellent description of what I’m urging people to stop doing. 👌🏽
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Haha! They are ALLLLL over the internet!! They are why I have to log off once in awhile 😬.
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The shootings in Las Vegas upset me as well. I’m glad to see you taking action. You’re right. We can’t change the event, but we sure can help the victims. Thanks for sharing all your ideas on ways to help. They are awesome! 🙂
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I’m glad you like them; there are so many wonderful opportunities out there!
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That was well said and needed. Thank you for putting the links in.
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Thank you! I hope you found a cause you liked.
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You are such a star Becca!
I always found it easier to get stuck in and raise money for this kind of thing back in London. It is easier when you have a wider network of acquaintances, I need to get my arse in gear and do more here as well. Thank you for the motivation and the cute animals.
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Josy, you’re so sweet! I know what you mean, but all it takes is that first small step to start a snowball. 🙂 And I am always here for cute animals! 😉
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Good work, I like all the information that you have gathered and are trying to do your best to be helpful.
Well written post.
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Thank you! It helps to know that I’ve done something that has helped someone, somewhere.
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Thanks for sharing this on Big Up your Blog fb thread – I have shared it on PainPals regular feature Monday Magic Inspiring Blogs for You! ….and followed you of course, Claire
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Thank you so much for sharing! I really appreciate it! ☺️
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You are very welcome – great connecting x
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